A little re-introduction of me & business polarity.
- Adelina Emmi
- Oct 3
- 9 min read
Running your own business is not for the faint-hearted. It is exactly what they say it is: blood, sweat, and tears. But I wouldn’t change that for anything. Some people were born to do this and they will not settle for anything else. I’m here to remind you that if this is something you feel in your heart is what you came to do, you can do it and more.
You can do anything.
We can have it all.
Dreams are already a reality.
A Little About Me, Adelina, a Business Oracle
I have witnessed many people struggling with their businesses, trying to heal from a lifetime of conditioning, not knowing where to start in such a one-way taught society, so I started mentoring as a Business Oracle to help women across the world take that leap they deep down yearn for.
I'm not talking about just making money here. I’m talking about living and breathing your purpose so that you feel you are contributing to a greater cause. This gives us purpose in our day-to-day, a reason to wake up, it takes us out of our minds and into our bodies, it drives and thrives us deep within. It awakens our inner compass, it helps us go north.
However, at the end of the day, none of us really know what we are doing. We are all just moving one foot after the other, enjoying every step of the day. After all, it isn’t about what’s at the end, it’s about the journey along the way. That’s where we see miracles, where we see light, where we feel deeper than we have ever felt before. It strengthens us, it holds us, it gives us inner confidence and clarity on why we came to this planet.
And sometimes it doesn’t. Sometimes it’s hard and mind-boggling, creating more fears and doubts from within.
This is why I do what I do. So that when they start to creep in and you start to doubt yourself, we can work through those walls and break through to the other side.
These sometimes surface as emotions; other times they can look like creative blocks or mental blocks. Sometimes they stop us from going forward and stop us on our tracks. ‘I don’t want to do this anymore, I’m not good enough to be here’ - sound familiar? Don’t worry, it has happened to me many times and still happens from time to time. I turn to my mentors or my toolbox and you can do the same.
Because the truth is, they are always going to surface. Your business is always going to have ups and downs. You personally are always going to have ups and downs, the key is knowing that this will always happen. It’s not sunshine and rainbows forever. But it doesn’t have to be as hard as it seems. There’s always a way through and you are never stuck. You are just spiralling up.
Every roadblock, every pause has something in it for us to learn. It has a way of giving us even more clarity to see further down the path. Without these, we may not get the insights and we might just continue forth at a steady pace forever. Is that what you want? Then brilliant, you might already be there. But some of us are here as students and want to learn every crevice of what this earthly experience is here to show us.
This is what I want to show you today as a precursor to elevating your business, however that looks for you. Whether you're starting a new business, moving through a roadblock or happily content on where you are at with your business. These tools can help you in your day-to-day to stay on track, to focus, to keep your business flowing, even when you aren’t in ‘flow’.
I want to start by giving you an understanding of energetics in your business, followed by actionable tasks that can get you started.
If you understand the basics of energetics, you will understand that we all have a masculine and feminine side to us. This is generally balanced, some sway from one side more than the other. Not to be mistaken by ‘male’ and ‘female’, these are energetics that help create polarity within. This can then be translated to your business and your relationships, once mastered.
In essence, polarity is the harmonics within a resonance field. It’s projection and reception. It’s not about gender and it doesn’t just play out in romantic dynamics. Anything with an energetic body has polarity - including your business.
Understanding the Energetic Body of Business
If you believe you have an energetic body, then it follows that your business, created with you, has one too. It is its own entity. Just like when two people come together and create a shared energetic field, you and your business co-create a field that is distinct from you alone.
This field begins forming the moment your business is born, whether consciously or not. The beliefs you hold, the decisions you make, the energy you bring, all of it feeds into the business's energetic body. And just like our own energetic systems, this can be worked on, cleared, strengthened, and balanced.
You can think of it this way: your business has an aura. And just like with your own, you can nurture it.
This understanding opens up the opportunity to not just manage a business strategically, but also energetically - clearing blocks, building stability, and infusing it with the energies it needs to grow. Again, this is separate to you but still an extension of who you are. I’ll go deeper into how to do this in another blog, but for now, let’s look at polarity as a foundational component.
Polarity in Business: Creating Coherence
Our businesses, like us, seek coherence between polarities: structure and flow, vision and execution, doing and being, and so on.
From the moment we birth an idea with intention and identity, our business forms an energetic body. And for that body to remain vital, alive, and in motion, it needs internal polarity. Masculine and feminine energetics exist here too.
Masculine Energetics in Business
Defining structure, offers, pricing & strategy
Launching programs, writing content, doing outreach
Planning the future and pushing the edges
Finding the solutions when needed
The masculine field gives direction, momentum, and forward motion.
Feminine Energetics in Business
Listening to unseen needs and tracking feedback loops
Holding space for integration and rest
Tuning into your body’s capacity and honouring intuitive timing
Surrendering to the waveforms within the business - the good & the bad
The feminine field receives, nourishes, and aligns.
Polarity gets out of balance when one side dominates. If the masculine pushes without rest or listening, we hit burnout. If the feminine flows without focus or structure, we lose traction.
Polarity is created when these two energies dance together, cooperating instead of collapsing into sameness or control.
Here is an example of how polarity works in real time
As I sat to write this blog, I didn’t know where I was going to start. As I have a deadline, I knew I needed to get started. But if I don’t have deadlines, I just start whenever I feel ‘called’. However, because I pushed myself to just start, it just started channeling out of me. This itself is a lesson to learn and master in your business. I am all for flow in your business and doing things your way, I preach this. But sometimes things need to get done and discipline is one of the greatest things you can learn for your business so that it continues to flow, even when you might not be in flow. That deadline was my Masculine Energetic pushing for structure and discipline, allowing my intuition, the Feminine Energetic, to finally flow through. This is the dance of polarity in action.
You can learn more about this in my blog here. But today I want to share with you tools for moving through and balancing within so that you can co-create with yourself, the planet and the multi-dimensional universe.
Now that you have a deeper understanding of polarity for business, it’s about creating it within so that your business is simply a reflection of this. You really don’t even have to try, it will naturally happen.
Actionable Tools for Energetic Balance and Business Flow
Mirror work - work on your shadows and integrate them.
Re-write your goals - what do you want to do, how do you want to make impact? Keeps these close as a reminder of your ‘why’.
Grab an accountability partner - nothing gives you motivation more than someone standing side-by-side with you in this.
Create to-do lists. As much as you may have resistance to it, it will change your life once you push through the resistance of it. Begin with 1-2 tasks a day that you have to check off, then increase from there. I like to use Notion.
Do something for you every day, particularly in the morning. Your morning sets you up for the day. Whether it’s meditation, quiet time, stretching, a walk, a coffee at a cute cafe, whatever lights you up and activates your joy for the day.
Create a toolbox of tools that help you get into your body when you are feeling overwhelmed. These could be mindful right through to actionable.
Join groups, get a mentor, anything that keeps you on track and accountable.
Find ways that balance your feminine and masculine every day. For example, you might start the day slow, mindful and without a schedule. But in the afternoon you might block out 2-3 hours of work time where you check off your to-do list. Try to balance this as much as you can every single day until it becomes habit.
Understand that our bodies get tired even if we believe we have to ‘do’. Prepare for this and take breaks, mentally and physically, every day so that you don’t burn out.
Make a list of all the things you love to do in business and the things you don’t. Focusing on the things you don’t like, can you go deeper into these? Can you find where the resistance is? Try journaling and meditating on these. Can you watch a YouTube video to help you re-learn this aspect of your business? If it’s absolutely something you can’t learn then add this to the ‘outsource’ pile. These are things you must outsource in your business before they start to block your expansion. I.e. Bookkeeping is required to advance your business, is this being taken care of or is it just something you forget about and hope for the best? These things can create roadblocks in your business long-term, so it is better to tackle them early on.
One thing to remember, without action, unfortunately you or your business cannot grow.
No matter what you do, remember to always do what makes you happy and brings you joy. If things are bringing you down, even when you try to push through the resistance, then perhaps you can question ‘are they really for me?’. This goes for anything in your life.
It is also important to tap into your intuition, no matter when it is or what it is for. You see, our intuition never switches off. We switch it off and we switch it on. If you want to access it before it ‘flows through’ then you can. It’s yours, you have access to it all the time. You never forget how to channel or download information. You can access it all the time.
What is your intuition saying? Where is it directing you? Even in those moments where you don’t feel ‘tapped in’, pause and ‘tap in’. The faster you learn your own ‘tap in’ techniques, the easier your life will become. No more questioning your decisions, no more waiting for the right time or the right answer. You are essentially taking back control, putting yourself into alignment and surrendering to whatever comes your way knowing that you have got this.
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Bringing together my experience with Marketing & Digital Media and my holistic guidance systems I aim to empower women to grow their businesses to create impact. That way we all are here doing exactly what we came here to do! Together, we will create a steady foundation for you to grow & prosper. I strongly believe there is not a one size fits all approach to business.
I know life can get in the way and sometimes we simply need empowerment to look in places we simply cannot see alone and heal ourselves. There's nothing that lights me up more than guiding you through. With personalised guidance and powerful tools at your fingertips, you'll feel inspired and motivated to take charge of your life.
Get ready to embark on a transformative journey that will leave you feeling energised, empowered, and ready to take on your business & make meaningful impact!
Your success, is my success.
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Much love,
Adelina

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